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Our WUMC Community

 

Our community life at WUMC provides opportunities for service, ministry, and fellowship as we discover ways to serve God, our church, and the greater Buffalo community. As part of the larger United Methodist community, we are committed to social justice, ending hunger, eradicating diseases of poverty, and being the healing faith community God calls us to be.

On this page you will learn about some of the ways individuals and groups at WUMC experience what it means to be part of a church community. Be sure to read the monthly article on the Hidden Talents Among Us page of this Web site to learn more about the amazing people in our church. You can also see photos of recent events and/or services at WUMC on the Photos of Our WUMC Community page.

As a church of open hearts, open doors, and open minds, we welcome you to join us in our journey.

 

 

United Methodist Women

United Methodist Women (UMW) is an organization of approximately one million members worldwide whose purpose is to foster spiritual growth, develop leaders and advocate for justice.  Members raise nearly $25 million each year for programs and projects related to women, children and youth in the United States and in more than 100 countries around the world. Visit the UMW website at http://new.gbgm-umc.org/umw/ to learn more about the programs and projects they support.

UMW Circles at WUMC

 

At WUMC we have two active UMW circles, the Dorcas Circle and Rachel Circle, which meet on a monthly basis. In addition to providing fellowship and support, these circles work on several projects each year. For example, through their fundraising projects, these circles are able to donate approximately $1,000 each year to the Niagara Frontier District UMW.

In addition, the Dorcas and Rachel Circles identify local projects to support. The Dorcas Circle provides bags of toiletry products to the Haven House. The Rachel Circle is responsible for one of the cottages at Gateway-Longview. When a resident of their cottage has a birthday, the Rachel Circle makes a birthday cake and then delivers it. They usually provide about 10 cakes each year. 

 

The women who participate in these circles enjoy special times of fellowship as they support worthy projects and plan fundraisers that contribute to the worldwide efforts of the UMW organization.

 

Kick-Off Meeting of Women of Williamsville (WOW) - September 14

 

It's time to form an evening group of United Methodist Women (UMW), which is being called WOW (Women of Williamsville)! Please join us for our kick-off meeting when we have dinner together at the Eagle House (5578 Main Street) on Tuesday, September 14, at 6:00 p.m. During this meeting, we will discuss ways this group can support each other and impact people of all ages in our church and community. For example, we might make a quilt for someone in the military or knit a prayer shawl together. One month we might read a book to discuss at our meeting, make sandwiches for the Soup Kitchen, or just enjoy being together.

Then plan to attend the WOW Meeting on the first Monday of the month, October through May, at 7:00 p.m. for fellowship and inspiration. The next WOW meeting is scheduled for October 4 at 7:00 p.m. During this meeting, we will have a Kitchen Item Swap. Look around your kitchen for an item you no longer use, but someone else might enjoy; and then bring the item to the meeting!

Please R.S.V.P. by September 7 to Carol Forden, Barbara Manhardt, Denise Reichard, or Sondra Scott so we can make reservations at the Eagle House. We hope you can join us for supper and a lively discussion on September 14. Be sure to bring your ideas to help plan meetings for this new UMW group throughout the coming months.

 

 

 

WUMC 2010 Women’s Retreat Gathering – September 24-25

The sign-up sheet is in the narthex for our Annual Women’s Retreat Gathering at the Center of Renewal 4421 Lower River Road, Stella Niagara NY 14144 (about a 30 to 45 minute drive north from the church). Our subject book this year is Twelve Steps to Inner Freedom: Humility Revisited by Joan D. Chittister. It is available through Benetvision.org for $9.95 or through other book retailers (ISBN #978-1890890155). We will be using the study/retreat plans that are provided with the book.

The retreat center cost is $62.00 per woman. If you would like to come but are in need of financial support to cover the cost, do not let that hinder your decision to come. Contact Kim Weingartner for financial or other needs. Each request will be handled confidentially.

Here are a few of the particulars for women who have not attended the retreat before. Our retreat begins on Friday, September 24, at 5:00 p.m. at the Center of Renewal. We will spend the night, then meet in the lounge area to do studies, crafts, and fellowship. The retreat ends by 4:00 p.m. on Saturday, September 25. Single occupancy sleeping rooms are provided for our overnight stay. Breakfast at 8:30 a.m. and lunch at 12:00 noon are included in the cost of the retreat. The grounds are available during free times during our retreat.

All women of the church are welcome! Come and enjoy the stimulating fellowship of other women of our church.

 

WUMC Book Club Begins in October

Ann Killian
If you enjoy reading, consider attending the WUMC Book Club this fall as we read and discuss the interesting books we selected at our Annual Book Club Picnic on August 6 at the Forden’s house. New members are always welcome! Even if you don’t have time to finish each book ‑ come to the meeting anyway. If only one or two books on our list interest you ‑ then come to just those meetings. In other words, you are welcome anytime you care to join us. If you have questions or need more information, please contact Ann Killian.

Fall 2010 Meetings and Book Selections

October 1 - 7:30 p.m. at WUMC
Book Selection:
Stones into Schools by Greg Mortensen
This book is a follow-up to Three Cups of Tea - both promote peace with books, not bombs. On November 10, some members of our Book Club plan to attend Greg Mortensen’s talk at UB, which is part of the UB’s Distinguished Speaker Series.

November 12 - 7:30 p.m. at the home of Carol and Roger Forden
Book Selection: The Help by Kathryn Stockett
This novel centers on three women whose lives intersect in 1962 Mississippi.

December (day and location TBD)
Book Selection: That Old Cape Magic by Richard Russo
This book provides a humorous look at family life.

 

WUMC Prayer Chain Ministry
Bob and Irene Hayman

The Prayer Chain at WUMC accepts prayer requests for friends, relatives, neighbors, and co-workers. You do not need to be a member of our church to ask for prayers.

As soon as we receive a prayer request from an individual or one of the pastors, we start the prayer request on the two lists of Prayer Chain members. Each member of the Prayer Chain calls the person below them to ensure the Prayer Chain is not broken. We convey the prayer request as succinctly as possible to protect one’s privacy. In fact, all prayer requests are considered confidential and are shared only with the pastors and other members of the Prayer Chain. Once we are notified that the last person on each list has received the prayer request, then we close the Prayer Chain. 

While it takes only a few minutes of telephone conversation to pass along a prayer request, this is an important ministry to those in need of spiritual assistance with all of life’s many problems. I do not know of many other church activities that are more rewarding. Feel free to call Bob or Irene Hayman if you have a prayer request or need any additional information.

 

 

Elderteens

This committed, vigorous group of older adults meets once a month for fellowship, activities, and mutual support. Activities range from gathering for lunch to taking day trips.

Forty Fellowship

On May 23, 1982, part of the worship service at Williamsville United Methodist was to recognize and pay tribute to those who had been members of our church for 40 years or more. On that day, 16 Charter Members of the “Forty Fellowship” were honored. During the worship service they were presented with a United Methodist pin and a Charter Member Certificate to the Forty Fellowship. A reception was held after the service and pictures were taken. Forming a Forty Fellowship was a small way to say, “We love you and appreciate your faithfulness."

The hope of the membership committee in 1982 (Mary Jane Haight-Eckert, Clifford Eckert, Gretchen Hall, Mary El Minich, Robert Oehmler, Frank Swansfefer, Irene Williams, and Lyn Wixom) was to make the Forty Fellowship a regular part of Heritage Sunday each year.

Almost 30 years later, WUMC continues this wonderful tradition of honoring these special members of our congregation. Congratulations to our new Forty Fellowship members and all who have been honored for this milestone over the years!!

 

Other Family Life Ministries


Our vibrant community at WUMC includes many other activities that meet the spiritual and fellowship needs of members and friends. A few of these activities include:
    • Every other Saturday Men’s Breakfast Group
    • Annual Summer Church Picnic
    • Hanging of the Greens in December

 

WUMC's Church Library


Our church library is filled with study guides, Bible commentaries, Christian reading materials, and recordings of sermons.
In addition to providing resources for faith formation, WUMC's library has a "Family Section" that provides materials that address the needs of families. In this section you will find books such as Sacred Stories of Ordinary Families: Living the Faith in Daily Life by Diana R. Garland. This book includes interviews with 110 families who were each asked, “What exactly is it that characterizes faith and spirituality in family life?” Take time to read one or two stories “from ordinary families whose lives together both reveal and rely on extraordinary faith!” New books are always being added to the library. So, feel free to peruse the books and check out one or two for your personal use.
 

A Quiet Place With God

When you need a respite from the fast pace of your busy life, the Prayer Corner in our church library is a place to spend some quiet time with God. Read and meditate on a passage of Scripture. Turn your worries and concerns over to God in prayer. Or simply be in silence and allow God's life-giving love to wash over you and renew your strength for the continuing journey. The Prayer Corner is available whenever the church is open during the day or evenings. Rest in God's promise, "Lo, I am with you always, even until the end of the age."

Don't Miss a Thing with Syndication!

Mina Rohde

RSS or "really simple syndication" is a way to view updates from your favorite websites all in one location. Just as a syndicated news column is published in many newspapers, an RSS news feed is "published" directly to Internet users without them having to visit the website where the news is located. You may be using RSS already and not know it. If you read your Facebook Wall or check the news on My Yahoo!, Lotus Notes, or iGoogle.com, those services use RSS to gather information from all over the Web and display it in one place. Many Internet browsers support RSS reading as well.

Our church website supports syndication for all announcements. To use this feature, click the orange icon with the white semicircles located in the bottom right-hand corner of the announcement column. You can either: 1) choose which application will subscribe to the news feed, or 2) copy the link in the address bar and paste it into your application's "Add RSS Feed" option.

After setting up this syndication option – Voila, each week the announcements and news from our church will appear on your personal page. If you have questions or need more information, please contact Mina Rohde. 

Thoughts from Our WUMC Community


 

Keeping Up With the Joneses
Karen Gerken

We have been remiss in keeping up with our former senior pastor and long-time WUMC member, The Reverend Robert Jones, as we missed reporting on the 50th anniversary of Bob’s ordination as an elder last June.

I had the pleasure of visiting with Bob and Helen Jones (and their dog, Joker) in their cozy home where I learned more about this couple’s journey through a life of ministry over these past 50 years. For those of you who don’t know, Bob was our beloved pastor at WUMC for eight years from 1991-1999.

Bob was raised in one of the oldest Buffalo Baptist churches, Prospect Avenue Baptist Church. From there he went to Houghton College and then on to Alfred University School of Theology. Meanwhile Helen, who was also a Baptist, grew up outside of Geneseo. She went on to major in early childhood education at Fredonia State College.

Fast-forward a couple of years when, as fate would have it, Bob and Helen met on the steps of East Otto Methodist Church where Bob was a student pastor. Helen was a teacher in nearby Cattaraugus. They married in 1957.

On June 9, 1959, in the morning, Bob was ordained as an Elder at the historic Asbury Delaware Church in Buffalo and that afternoon, Bob graduated from Alfred, the reverse of the way it is done today.

Bob’s first appointment was as associate pastor at University Methodist Church in Buffalo. It was 1959, UB was nearby and dormitories were about to be built. The area was rife with students, and Bob was told to “do something with them!” In 1961, he became the Campus Minister and the Director of the Wesley Foundation, the Methodist student movement he established and centered at University Church. The Wesley Foundation consisted of over 100 mainly on-campus students. Many met Sunday evenings for dinner and fellowship. Helen often did the cooking for 60-75 students. During the week, there was Bible study, activities and retreats planned; and the first inner city tutoring project was established. Being a kindergarten teacher, Helen started a nursery school in the church, which was active for decades.

After eight years, and a lifetime in Western New York, Bob wanted to pastor a local church; he asked the Bishop what might be available in the mid-south part of the country. He was offered - South Buffalo. That wasn’t quite what he had in mind, and Bob’s colleagues advised him not to take the job, since replacing the 21 year veteran pastor would be a tough act to follow.

In 1967 there were a lot of changes: The Methodist Church and The Evangelical United Brethren Church were about to merge into The United Methodist Church, created in 1968. Plus, the Joneses had three children to consider. Three days later, Bob got a call asking him to consider the appointment. Local ministry was a big change from the University setting but the Joneses grew to love South Buffalo, Woodside United Methodist, and the people.

Bob’s parents had good friends at Woodside Methodist who sponsored a bright Filipino medical school student, named Ben Atanacio. In fact, Rev. Bob Jones performed the marriage ceremony for Ben and Benita Atanacio at Woodside United Methodist Church. The Atanacios have now been longtime members at WUMC where they were coincidently reunited with Bob as their senior pastor, all those years later.

After seven years and many fond memories, in 1974, Bob was appointed to Baker Memorial United Methodist in East Aurora where Helen was active in the Women’s Society and was the director of the Children’s Choir.

After six years, Bob was wondering aloud to a long-time member of Baker Memorial where he would go next and her reply was that “most pastors either become District Superintendents or they die!” So, he jumped at the opportunity to take the position of District Superintendent of the Rochester District in 1980, knowing it beat the alternative.

The Joneses ended up back in Buffalo when Bob’s term as District Superintendent was up where he became the pastor at Central Park United Methodist Church for three years. They decided to purchase a home in Williamsville and in 1989, Bob was asked to be the Bishop’s Associate and operate a satellite office in Buffalo. Just like that, Bob was back at University Methodist, the same office, right where he started!

Tragedy struck the Joneses in 1991 when an electrical heater caused a house fire and major destruction. Shortly thereafter, the Bishop called and said the Cabinet would like Bob to take a full-time appointment. Being so near retirement, and with a newly renovated house, Bob couldn’t bear the thought of moving Helen again. However, he listened and learned the assignment was less than a mile down the road at WUMC! So, for eight years, Bob was the senior pastor at WUMC until his retirement in 1999.

Bob felt fortunate to have so much perspective from his experience in various ministries. For those of us lucky enough to recall Bob’s sermons, that wisdom shone through in his powerful messages as he interspersed personal experience in spiritual lessons.

When asked the biggest change he had seen over the past 51 years, Bob had to stop and consider since there have been so many. He responded that perhaps it has been the movement to a more liturgical service, and the inclusion of a contemporary service. He also mentioned that the place of communion has also been a notable change, observing the frequency trend from the “old days” of quarterly distribution, to once a month and now about one-third of United Methodist services celebrate the Lord’s Supper every week.

If you attend the 11:00 a.m. Sunday worship service, you will see Bob and Helen in “their” pew, greeting friends before worship. They have come full circle now, from student teachers to fully engaged church leaders to wisdom-bearing exemplary members among us. It’s good to keep up with the Joneses. Who could have imagined the journey ahead for these two young Baptists would met on the steps of a Methodist Church.

 Community News Minimize
Fall Clean Up at Camp Asbury – October 8-10
On the weekend of October 8-10, Volunteers-in-Mission (UMVIM) will begin removal and rebuilding a boathouse at Camp Asbury, Silver Lake, NY from the foundation up. The current structure is unusable. This is the first of several planned fall/spring camp work weekends around the new conference for the UMVIM community. We hope to work at each camp in rotation eventually working at all six. It will be a time to get to know those from the original four conferences as we work for our camping ministries. If you want to volunteer to help with this project or need more information, please contact Jay Dunkleberger (jdunkleb@nycap.rr.com). 

    
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